You have two types of people, people who hate hyped shit and bash it, and people who love the hype shit and bash everything else. yea we have our opinions, but i think opinions should be respected and not turn into an argument that later turns into violent insults, that’s just a waste of time. If for some reason u dont like something just because its hyped, doesnt mean u have a right to call it crap especially if u never even tried it out first. U can call it crap if u experienced it and then u think its crap, that’s ok, but try it out before u talk shit. Two examples from two people i know. Heres the first.
As I sat at my desk “working”, doodling some stick figures I realized how much one of my stick men looked like one of my ex-boyfriend (he really was that skinny too) and then I started thinking of that word “EX” it’s such a disturbing title, I mean think about it, who likes being the EX boyfriend or girlfriend? The title really isn’t pleasant, so it got me wondering how it is we end up which such a title? What is it that people are doing that make their partners say BUH BYE. So I started my research on the subject and asked various people to think about their previous relationships and the results were, well very interesting and I’ll start with my two major experiences, my first “true love” at the time was nice and I really couldn’t complain much until we grew older and I kept getting taller and he didn’t. It was terrible, it’s not like I grew an inch or two, I had a good 5-6 inches on him. So self-consciousness of everyone looking at us got the best of the relationship so it ended.
If your reading this then chances are that yes unfortunately you are already in the zone, and have probably been in it for a while. One of the most commonly asked questions is “How can I get out of the friend zone?” I think people are going about it the wrong way, what you really should be asking is “How do I avoid getting there?”, but the truth is, it’s like a bear trap, once you’ve stepped in it your pretty much stuck and the longer you’re in it, the longer it hurts. Let’s look at the factors, what type of man is most like likely to get in the “friend zone”? Well if you take a look at the men who are, you would notice that MOST (not all) are your average Joe’s. They’re nice, shy and probably not very into themselves but why are these men so likely to end up in such a situation? Well here are a few reasons from my perspective. For starters most women like an assertive guy, a man who knows what he wants in life and in a woman, so if you meet or know a woman that you find attractive LET IT BE KNOWN!
The Way I liked Her
Has anyone seen the new Ciara video “ride”? well I would suggest not to watch it but then again go right ahead just so you can really see what I’m talking about. I mean it’s obvious she feels not enough people were looking at her before. When the video first started I was amazed as I always am with her, I mean I’m a huge fan, like come on her dancing skills are beyond amazing, you feel mesmerized wondering to yourself “damn girl how does she do that”, same way I feel when I see Shakira move those hips, but as the video went on I felt nothing but disappointment and disgust. Um Ciara is that really how you’re trying to portrait yourself now? She was known as the sexy tomboy, one who knew how to portrait her “sexy†without having to be naked but it’s obvious now that her insecurities took the best of her.
